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How to DOMINATE Online Dating Sites...
Online dating has been talked about quite a bit as of late and I wanted to give you guys a guide on how to get good at it. First thing you have to know is that women react much differently online than they do if you were to meet them in a bar. The reason for this is because women who are moderately attractive online will be hit on a lot more than if they were out and the competition was stiffer. Before jumping into online dating as yourself the following question. **Am I doing this to avoid the anxiety I feel approaching in a bar or club?** If the answer is yes, don?t get involved with online dating because you will just bring your anxieties onto the dates. The next realization you have to understand is this: If a girl really is a quality woman and very attractive why would she need to try online dating? Lots of times the girl tries online dating because there are not a lot of other options for her. Online dating still has the stigma that you don?t have a lot of options and so you are ?trying something new.? That being said... If you still want to to try online dating here is how to dominate it. The first rule of dominating the online dating world is to have a great picture. I cannot stress how important this is. A picture is a persons first impression of you. It?s often said that a picture is worth a thousand words but when it comes to online dating a picture is worth a million words. Unlike real life, your physical appearance matters much more when it comes to online dating. Why you ask? Because these girls who are moderately attractive online think they are 10s because of the attention they get. As a social experiment open a profile on a free dating site with a picture of a moderately attractive girl, sit back and watch. Within 10 minutes you are bound to have emails pouring in like: *Subject Line: Hey* *Body: Just wanted to say hi, you are so beautiful* or *Subject Line: Hey Beautiful* *Body: You are so hot. Let?s chat, I would like to take you out. * ________________________________________________________________________________________ Since a profile picture is so important here are some tips to getting a GOOD profile picture. 1) Smile in your picture. 2) Make the picture professional quality if you can. You can tell the difference between a phone picture and a professional one, get the professional pictures. 3) Don?t be shirtless for no reason. If you are on the side of a waterfall with your friends, shirtless is ok but standing in your bathroom you look like a tool. 4) Be adventurous! Stop trying to be so serious in your profile picture. The next part of being dominate in the online dating world is crafting your profile. Your profile should be unique and customized to who you are. Often times guys will be boring or dull and say the same things. *?I like sports and hanging with my friends.? * Of course you like hanging with friends, everyone does. Just like ?real life? game you need to embed banter and confidence into your profile. Constructing your profile is very important and so you want to have fun with this. I am going to give you an idea how to do it along with clips of my profile that I used to get massive results. Step 1: In a document list all the activities that you enjoy doing and you are passionate about. If you occasionally hike then no need to list that. List the things that you really like and do often. Step 2: Weave funny and serious lines throughout your profile based on your passionate hobbies. Example: ?At any given time of the day I am blowing bubbles in a field of lily?s while unicorns prance to the melodic sounds of my voice.... aka I love hiking.? You want to inject humor followed by a serious statement. What this does is show multiple dimensions to your personality all the while showing that you are not taking this to seriously. Being too serious on a dating site shows massive amounts of desperation. To avoid this you need to inject humor at every turn. ________________________________________________________________________________________ *Example: ?In the morning work for a company slaving away in a cubical. Come night time I seduce 80 year old women in cribbage tournaments.?* ________________________________________________________________________________________ This weaving humor and reality causes laughter while showing you are having fun. This is something 90% of the guys online don?t do and so it becomes really refreshing to the girl. When I did this with my profile I would get messages everyday with girls commenting on something about my profile or how they thought I was so funny. Your profile should be working FOR you and not against you in the online dating world. Finally lets talk about HOW to message girls. Your subject line needs to stand out. If your profile picture is good and your subject line is unique you dramatically increase your odds that she will open the message. When it comes to subject lines I typically think of stupid things like..?Pandas are the only...? or ?The best and worst things about your....? I leave cliff hangers for subject lines to encourage her to open them. Once your subject line is in place its time to move on to the message itself. Most guys look at the picture of a girl and message her based on that. To be dominant at online dating you have to be a cut above the rest so make sure you read her profile. In the message I typically mention something about her profile that I found interesting. I know what you are thinking, what if she said nothing interesting right? Then tell her that! *?So after careful review of your profile I think you need help. What are 3 cool things about you that most people don?t know??* If you find something you like about her profile, mention it with a fun, non-serious message. ________________________________________________________________________________________ *Subject: Lions and Tigers and....* *Example: So now that you are about to read the best message ever sent to you... I should warn you I am known for breaking hearts, loving puppies, going on adventures and giving amazing hugs. I see you going in adventures too, I guess the others come with time :)* -Mayson ________________________________________________________________________________________ A message like this gets a woman?s attention and catches her way off guard. Couple these unique messages with fun profiles and a great picture and you are on your way to online dating domination... Stay horny my friends... more