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Found a post/comment insightful? Add it below! (will be edited/added constantly) Are you new to Seddit? Try the following posts first: ### Premise The word [seduction](http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Seduce) has two meanings either **"to lead astray"** or **"to attract."** It is up to the individual to choose what he wants to do with the information given. The seduction community was establish because there's a need for men to have a dialog. What men usually have among his close friends is typical of this dialog: Guy 1: My relationship is not going great... any advice? Guy 2: That's too bad, let's have another beer! The dating advice that are traditionally given to men in this modern age does not typically work. The community is a peer group of men that talks about what works, and what doesn't work. It can range from creating attraction, being passionate about life, handling situations, how to handle relationships, dating, sex, confidence issues, rejection, etc. People who read seddit can range from people who's just looking for single girl that he could have amazing relationships with, to people who want to have sex as many women they want, to people with low confidence (being rejected that really affected the person, divorced, depressed, no father figure, etc) or did not not have many women around them to interact with (long term relationships, lives in rural area, etc). Therefore, understand that many people who read seduction materials can have vastly different reasons why they want to do so. * [Seddit Wiki: Seduction Community Myths...](/comments/czskb/) ### Women's Resources Men don't have the kind of support group (gf's) and products (magazines, romance novels, etc.) that are widely available to you. But if you're looking for seduction insights check the links that are geared for men and the ff: * [Is there a subreddit for dating advice for women?](/d3iwt/) * [Is there a seduction that's aimed at women seducing men?](/d218e/) * [Girl here: What things can/does a girl do to move up or down in rating?](/d48rf/) ### Fashion/Style * [Kinowear](http://anonym.to/?http://www.kinowear.com/blog/) (goes through an anonymizer, look for 'lookbooks' for style inspirations and some body language entries, and other articles like **"Why Passion Is So Attractive"** it's on the sidebar) * [Male Fashion Advice](/r/malefashionadvice) ### Beginners/Foundation ### Know What You Want: * [Seddit, how many of you study the material not because you want to be a PUA, but because you want the partner of your dreams?](/bhyp9/) * [As a lifelong introvert, I have always struggled to have vibrant conversations with anyone, especially women. Can any one offer any advise?](/crlh2/) * [Survey: Which school of PUA thought do you follow?](/cv8yo/) * [Guys with questions! Please Read: The BEST pick-up advice you will ever read -- covers all of your questions about 'I met a girl, What should I do?'](/cwlp8/) ### The Concepts: * [PickUp Material](/cixay/) * [To the introverts, nice guys, AFC's, new to pick-up, inner game people - listen to two mp3's and it just might change your life.](/cl8a1/) * [In the 10 years I have learned about seduction.. If I did it again, I would throw all of it away and follow this...](/comments/d1dpj/) * [My list of AAA rated PUA learning materials](/9025d/) * [Books on social value and social interaction](/cptnf/) * [Reading List For A Beginner](/b0hyf/) * [iPhone + LOLCats as openers and conversational hooks](/cu1ml/) * [Openers](/r/seduction/comments/cqvcu/fr_first_kiss_close_ever/c0uk1pb) * [Pro-Tip: That hot girl with those guys? Probably not her boyfriend.](/cd1hc/) * [Dear Seddit, I made you a cheat-sheet.](/ckk9a/) * [Talk To Everyone](/ckut1/) * [A few things I learned that might help beginners](/cl0ay/) ### Body Language: * [This book on Body Language will give you an unfair advantage over everyone else.](/r/seduction/comments/c8b8m/) * [Could someone explain the difference between staring and maintaining strong eye contact?](/ctd1r/) * [Arrogant instead of confident (body) language](/cvu95/) * [Here's a little list of IOIs (Indicator of interest); feel free to add.](/cortx/) * [Two guys who were trained by a PUA bootcamp fail miserably when they try out a speed dating event.](/cwiug/) * [Body Language Video: Power and Sex](/cwplv/) * [The importance of posture](/dcoaw/) ### Intermediate * [Exercise: Touch everyone you talk to](/bpx0p/) * [Preemptively smashing LMR - The Vin DiCarlo Escalation Ladder, one of the best works ever produced by community](/r/seduction/comments/cd7y8/) * [What are your techniques for overcoming token last minute resistance?](/cs7h5/) * [What is the best source for infield videos?](/cq7yq/) * [How to become the Alpha male](/coe8n/) * [No Excuses. (Developing Self-Discipline)](/cfucr/) * [Each time you fail to act, you lose something](/cj3mz/) ### Advance/Natural/Inner * [Lessons in game](/cr2wf/) * [As per a sedditor's request: The 21 epiphanies that helped me in my quest to become better at seduction.](/c1xwy/) * [Used my umbrella as an opener, neg, and lock in prop during a day set today](/cnqti/) * [Ask Seddit: Have you ever had a girl who defied the principles of game? ](/ctey3/) * [To the introverts, nice guys, AFC's, new to pick-up, inner game people - listen to two mp3's and it just might change your life.](/cl8a1/) ? yes this will also help you become a natural * [David Wygant Interviews... Philosophy of ?negs,? the inside information about the Mystery Method came about... if you still didn't know (#29, 1:30). Also on topic of body language and eye contact.](/cp9s8/) * [Ultimately, changing minds is what we're doing. This is the Internet's best resource on persuasion and is a vast source of high-quality material on seduction, even though you won't see the term Kino mentioned even once.](/cu813/) * [Book on Inner Game: Intimate Connection](/cxuuu/) * [Direct Game](/cy0yd/) ### Techniques [Hotel Bars on Sunday Nights](/d06df/) ###Banters/Comebacks * [What is your best "I have a boyfriend" retort?](/c4mwb/) Personally, I also use "Why, Interested?" "Why, you feel threatened?" or I will sincerely say "Wow, lucky guy!" (makes the girl evaluate her relationship at that moment, then if they ever break-up at least she knows you're positive guy) If you use the "Me too" comeback for I have a boyfriend you will probably get a response from her... **"Are you gay?"** Say.. "No," smile, and follow up with... "Then again, I'm gay, can I touch your boobs now?" (position your palm close to her breasts but obviously not touching, yes I've done this and you will not get slapped as long you have the correct frame/confidence) * ["Tell me something that I didn't know"](/r/seduction/comments/csaoq/a_pickup_attempt_i_had_with_a_hb8_at_a_clothing/c0uv3m4) * [FR - Dinner with lesbians](/d0p2v/) * [kiss on the lips plenty of kino though, mixed signals and a dancer.](/r/seduction/comments/d0qay/no_kiss_on_the_lips_plenty_of_kino_though_mixed/c0wp48g) ### Friend Zone (can't really find much on Seddit, linking out...) * [Friend Zone theory. Your thoughts?](/byen2/) * [Another Trip Into The Friend Zone](http://anonym.to/?http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/another-trip-into-the-friend-zone/4466/) (goes through an anonymizer) * [Get Out Of The Friend Zone](http://anonym.to/?http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/the-friend-zone-mindset/3567/) (goes through an anonymizer) * [Understanding Women: Get Out Of The Friend Zone & Date Your Crush](http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_q03F3S7BhU) * [Women of Reddit: What qualities will land a guy in the "friend zone" rather than the "datable" group?](/b7l1l/) * [Successfully broke out of the Friend Zone. Then it all went to shit. 6 months on, I still dwell on what caused the shit storm- advice/thoughts? (Long Read)](/a7zmy/) * [The Full Stop](/d0tfm/) ### Dating * [Let's make a big list of date ideas (first dates and day 2s)](/cr09m/) * [Ladies of Reddit: What is the best date you've been on?](/ckxmm/) * [I specialize in seduction using OKCupid, which I really love. Let's make this an AMA thread and also if there's any others of you out there, let's share tips.](/cp1xv) (Online Dating) * [Advice for a speed-dating event? ](/crir8/) ### Female Perspective * [Good Evening Gentlemen! I'm Shots, and I'm here to help you.](/csaja/) * [Seddit, what does your living space (specifically, your bedroom) look like? Do you do anything special to prepare for visits from women?](/ctdwr/) * [IAmA female who's active in the PUA/Seduction community. I read the literature, coach guy friends, and act as a wingwoman. AMA. ](/axq6m/) * [Do you think Game needs a female opinion?...discuss.](/cso1v/) * [What excites you?](/cvs6y/) ###Race Relations * [Seddit, Im a black guy... ](/c1r7u/) * [Seddit, I'm an Asian guy](/c1w44/) * [Asian guys - do you find it harder than white guys to pick up chicks?](/cviw5/) PROTIP: "If any asian dudes do end up coming to this thread for advice, read the replies but completely disregard any posts by the OP. He has a raging hard-on for remaining an AFC." [-itsthecharacterlimit](/comments/cviw5/asian_guys_do_you_find_it_harder_than_white_guys/c0vmgph) ###Dancing * [How can I learn the mating ritual of club dancing ASAP?](/cd47m/) ###Misc. * [Help me go to war](/cpxur/) * [Reddit, she flaked before we even met in person. Can I prevent this from happening again?](/cmpjh/) * [Seddit, give me some texting advice.](/cjln7/) * [Aaron Sleazy Debunking The Seduction Community - A must read ](/r/seduction/comments/c0r69/) * [Downvote me to oblivion but I gotta say it..](/csrkn/) * [SIRC Guide to Flirting](http://anonym.to/?http://www.sirc.org/publik/flirt.html) ### Field Reports (tag your Field Reports by putting FR/[FR] on the title) * [FR's or Field Reports](http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/search?q=fr&restrict_sr=on&sort=relevance) more